Overcoming Envy

Remember the expression "Green with envy".  I looked up the definition of envy.  It's very close to jealousy.  According to the Oxford American Dictionary, "envy" is a feeling of discontented or resentful longing aroused by someone else's possessions, qualities, or luck.  Envy and jealousy both lead to the destructive attitude of covetousness.  The Ten Commandments specifically forbids covetousness because it is a negative emotion that can destroy you.

We've all joked about envy.  Who hasn't driven down the road and glanced at the car or truck driving by and said, "I sure wish I had that truck"?  Unfortunately, envy for some of us is no joke; it's a negative emotion that is controlling our lives.  If we don't overcoming the poison of envy, it will ruin our lives and all of our relationships.

Here's a three step process for overcoming envy - 1. Don't compare yourself to others (Galatians 6:4).  It's foolish to compare; it leaves us prideful or pitiful.  2. Cultivate an attitude of thankfulness.  You are a unique individual.  John Mason once penned, "You were born an original.  Don't die a copy."   Only you can be you and God wants to help you be the best you can be!  3. Celebrate the success of others.  This may seem like an impossible task, especially if things aren't going your way.  The next time you think of some one else's success, congratulate them and rejoice in their success.  Join us Sunday as we look at what the Bible has to say about "Overcoming Envy."  Tom Ragsdell